Roommates, the internet has been OBSESSED with Colman Domingo and his husband, Raúl, lately. And it’s a mixture of shock that ‘The Walking Dead’ star is married and has managed to keep his love life out of trending convos.
That changed about a week ago after the lovebirds attended the 2025 Film Independent Spirit Awards together. Now, a resurfaced video of Colman recalling their “how we met” story is also going viral. So what’s tea with the Domingos? Keep reading to catch up on the love story that’s gagging the social media streets!
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How Colman Domingo & Raúl Met
This week, the internet is stuck on a clip of Colman Domingo explaining how he met his hubby. The actor spilled his relationship tea last year on ‘The Graham Norton Show.’ The nearly three-minute video shows Domingo breaking down the unconventional way he bagged Raúl in 2005.
That year, he was walking into a Walgreens in Berkley, California, when he spotted a “beautiful” man with “beautiful hair…lip piercing.” Colman was on the phone while the mystery man was with a woman who was poppin’ off for an unknown reason. Still, the man and Domingo continued to make eye contact before he and the woman walked away. The actor said he felt “dumbfounded” but ended up inside a Blockbuster across the street.
But the “hopeless romantic” in Domingo Colman couldn’t let the first meet go. While scanning Craigslist to purchase a used computer, he considered placing a “missed connection” ad on the site about his lil’ mystery friend! However, while reading some of the existing ones, Domingo noticed that the mystery man had placed an ad about him!
“He placed an ad for me two hours before,” Domingo said, adding that his future husband described him by his fo-hawk. Three days later, Domingo Colman and Raúl had their first date in a San Francisco bar. He spent the night for cuddles, and a 4 a.m. confession led to two decades of love.
“I thought he was asleep; four o’clock in the morning, I couldn’t sleep, and I said I think I love you, and you’re about to change my life, and we’ve been together almost 19 years now.”
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From A Craigslist Ad To An Intimate Wedding Ceremony
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Now that we know HOW the couple met. Let’s get into their journey from an extended first date to Raúl rocking Domingo’s last name. As mentioned, they met in early 2005. By the summer of that year, Domingo secured an acting gig that required him to temporarily move to Alaska. Rather than let distance get in the way or become their norm, Raúl also got a job on the movie set as an assistant costume designer.
In the fall, the couple relocated to New York. A few months later, in November 2005, Raúl proposed, and Colman accepted. While their engagement happened within a year of meeting, it took almost a decade for them to make it paper official. In 2015, they invited 25 guests to their home for a house party vibe. As their loved ones arrived, the couple greeted them by saying, “Welcome to our wedding.” Aside from Colman’s Hawaiian shirt and their partying until 4 a.m., not much else is known about their unconventional ceremony.
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Raúl Has BEEN Showing Up For His Husband!
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While folks are gagged at Raúl popping out with his husband for two back-to-back red carpets, their love, and support for each other has never been in the shadows!
According to GQ, Raúl rarely misses an opportunity to support his husband’s career. Soon after meeting, he reportedly attended almost every one of Colman Domingo’s performances in the play Jonestown.” Each time Raúl came, a bouquet of white roses was waiting for Colman.
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Fast-forward to 2025, Raúl Domingo is keeping the tempo. Their appearance at the Independent Spirit Awards on February 22 put social media all in his marital business. Colman pulled up in a custom Dolce & Gabbana silver silk suit with white Christian Louboutin shoes. Hubby was dressed in a three-piece black suit with his hair loosely slicked back.
Raúl rocked a similar look to the Oscars on the first Sunday in March. Meanwhile, Domingo went BOLD with black slacks and a bright red wrap suit jacket. According to PEOPLE, his look was a custom Maison Valentino creation. He told the outlet the ‘fit represented love.
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